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Latest revision as of 22:44, 20 May 2026

Visual Cue Narration
Title slide: Understanding Judgment and Feedback Welcome to this spoken tutorial on Judgment and Feedback
Learning Objectives In this tutorial, you will learn:

• The difference between judgment and feedback.

• How judgment interferes with communication.

• How feedback works in daily life.

• How words impact our relationships.

Pre-requisites

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Flow chart — Reality → Interpretation → Beliefs

Show microscope, laboratory setup — measurable examples

In an earlier tutorial, we learnt about what reality is.

Reality is what can be measured, checked, or tested.

Show person thinking about an event Interpretation is how we experience reality.
Show contact lenses as "Beliefs" Beliefs are like contact lenses through which we see the world.
Feedback and Judgement difference Now, let's understand what feedback and judgment mean.

Let me share a story with you.

Show Riya and Ravi working on a project Meet Riya and Ravi.

They are working together on their college project.

Ravi submitting his project Ravi submits his part of the project late.
Visual: Late Submission → Delayed Presentation → Lost Marks The delay causes their project submission to be late.

As a result, they lose marks in their presentation.

Show Riya upset, frowning Riya is very upset and angry.
Riya's angry response to Ravi She says, "You are very irresponsible, Ravi.

I shouldn't have teamed up with you."

Narrator pause Let's pause here and reflect on what just happened.
Reality: Ravi submitted late. The reality is simple.

Ravi submitted his work late.

Riya's interpretation Riya's interpretation is that Ravi is irresponsible.
Riya's belief Her belief may be that responsible people always submit their work on time.
Interpretation stated as fact = Judgment She stated her interpretation as if it were a fact.

That is how a judgment is formed.

Evaluation of Riya's interpretation "You are irresponsible" sounds like the truth, but it's Riya's interpretation.

The statement is a judgment.

Ravi's face turning defensive or sad How do you think Ravi might feel hearing that?

Hurt?

Defensive?

Angry?

Judgment closes communication. Judgments often stop good communication and create distance.
Replay same situation Let's see what happens if Riya speaks in a different way.
Riya taking a deep breath This time, she pauses before replying.
Text bubble: "I'm upset you didn't submit on time." She says, "I'm upset you didn't submit your work on time."
Text bubble: "I felt it was irresponsible of you." "I felt it was irresponsible of you to do that."
Interpretation shared as interpretation = Feedback When we share how we felt, it becomes feedback.
Judgment vs Feedback comparison Let's compare both ways she spoke.
Left: "You are irresponsible." Her judgment, 'You are irresponsible,' states her interpretation as truth.
Right: "I felt it was irresponsible of you." Her feedback, 'I felt it was irresponsible of you' shares how she felt.
Ravi listening calmly When Riya gives feedback, Ravi can listen without feeling threatened.

He will not feel like he is being blamed.

Feedback keeps dialogue open. Feedback helps continue the conversation and builds trust.
Vocabulary Now let's look at the words we can use to share feedback.

We will also see the words we need to avoid in order to be judgmental.

Feedback sentence starters Feedback starts with phrases like -

"I notice,"

"I observe,"

"I conclude,"

"I think,"

"I feel,"

"I experience," and

"the impact on me is."

Judgment sentence pattern Judgment starts with the word 'You'.
Summary Slide Let's summarize:

Judgment states opinion as truth.

• Feedback is sharing your feelings with respect.

• Feedback increases trust and understanding.

• Using the word "I" keeps the conversation going.

Assignment

• Think of a time when you judged someone.

• For example, you may have said, "You are careless".

• Rewrite that sentence as feedback using what you learnt today

• Here is a hint:

• First think about the outcome of the event

• Then talk about the emotions the outcome caused

• Combine the two; it becomes a feedback

Here's an assignment for you.
Acknowledgement slides Thank you for joining
Disclaimer slide
Final slide:

This Spoken Tutorial is brought to you by EduPyramids Educational Services Private Ltd, SINE IIT Bombay

Contributors and Content Editors

Bellatony911, Misbah