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Understand how comparison brings emotions such as jealousy and admiration.
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- Define the concept of guilt.
  
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Identify the message behind jealousy.
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- Identify common triggers for guilt.
  
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Understand how admiration can guide personal growth and learning.
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- Recognize the impact of guilt on individuals.
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- Explore different ways to process guilt.
  
 
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Notebook
 
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Pause
 
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| To begin learning, you will need a computer or a mobile phone.
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| To learn you will need a computer or a mobile phone.
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Before we start, please keep a notebook ready to note your reflections.
 
Before we start, please keep a notebook ready to note your reflections.
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Pause and practice when instructed.
 
Pause and practice when instructed.
  
 
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Jealousy and admiration often arise when we compare ourselves with others.
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| Guilt is an emotion we all experience.
  
 
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|| A woman feeling guilty
  
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| These feelings are not opposites.
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| It often makes us uncomfortable.
  
 
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|| A woman winning an award scene
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|| A woman feeling guilty
  
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| They are two responses to the same situation.
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| But guilt exists for an important reason.
  
 
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|| A woman winning an award scene
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|| Guilt vs values
  
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| The difference lies in where we direct our energy.
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| It helps us see when we have gone against our values or broken someone's trust.
  
 
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|| Arrow pointing inward
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|| Hunter-gatherer life
  
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| Jealousy turns the energy inward.
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| Thousands of years ago, humans lived as hunter-gatherers in small tribes.
  
 
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|| Arrow pointing forward
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| Admiration turns the energy forward.
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| Survival depended on sharing food, protecting one another, and cooperation.
  
 
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|| A member of tribe lying
  
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| Let us understand this through a college story.
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Getting attacked by wolf
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|| Three friends walking together
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| '''Vikram''', '''Ajay''', and '''Rohit''' were close friends in college.
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| If one person lied, hid food from everyone, or broke trust, the entire group suffered.
  
 
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|| Group studying together
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|| Guilty man
  
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| They studied together and worked on research projects.
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| Guilt helped early humans notice this from within.
  
 
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|| Laptop with email open
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| One day, '''Vikram''' shared exciting news.
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| It acted as an inner alarm saying, "I may harm my group."
  
 
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|| Email: Conference selection
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|| Man asking for forgiveness
  
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| His research paper was selected for a prestigious conference in '''Singapore'''.
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| This pushed them to admit mistakes, repair harm, and restore trust.
  
 
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|| Friend smiling and clapping
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|| A woman guilty with chains symbol
  
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| '''Ajay''' congratulated '''Vikram''' warmly.
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| Guilt is not a moral weakness.
  
 
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|| Friend walking away
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|| A woman repairing the chains
  
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| '''Rohit''' smiled briefly and walked away.
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| It is a signal that something needs repair.
  
 
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|| Small celebration table
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|| Today's scenario
  
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| '''Ajay''' organized a small treat to celebrate '''Vikram's''' achievement.
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| Life today is very different from the past.
  
 
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|| Small celebration table
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|| Emotions
  
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| '''Rohit''' did not attend the celebration.
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| But our emotional system is the same.
  
 
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|| Rohit being alone
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|| Guilt vs values
  
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| That evening, '''Rohit''' felt restless and uneasy.
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| Guilt still appears when our actions hurt others or break trust.
  
 
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|| Rohit staring at ceiling
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|| College
  
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| He kept thinking about '''Vikram's''' success.
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| Let us understand this through a college story.
  
 
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|| Thought bubble
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|| Test announced in classroom
  
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| Then he thought to himself "I worked hard too."
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| In class, a test was announced on Friday for the following Monday.
  
 
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|| Thought bubble
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|| Sonia noticing down
  
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| Why wasn't my research paper selected?
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| '''Sonia''' noted it down but soon forgot about it.
  
 
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|| Friends on a trek
  
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| Maybe I'm not good enough.
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| That weekend, '''Sonia''' went on a short trek with her friend '''Rachita'''.
  
 
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|| Unread messages on phone
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|| Friends on a trek
  
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| '''Rohit''' avoided messages from his friends and kept his distance.
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| They enjoyed the walk and the fresh air.
  
 
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|| Student isolated
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|| Exam paper distribution
  
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| Jealousy slowly began to isolate him from everyone.
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| On Monday, the teacher entered the class and distributed question papers.
  
 
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|| Sonia tensed
  
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| Jealousy is not bad.
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| '''Sonia''' felt her stomach tighten.
  
 
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|| Sonia tensed
  
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| It is a signal.
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| She had not studied at all.
  
 
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|| Teacher–student conversation
  
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| It points to something we want or value.
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| '''Sonia''' told the teacher she had travelled for a family emergency.
  
 
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|| Teacher–student conversation
  
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| When listened to, jealousy can reveal hidden goals.
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| The teacher believed her and allowed her to take the test later.
  
 
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|| Broken link icon
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|| Bus stop scene
  
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| When ignored, it can harm relationships and confidence.
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| That evening, the teacher met '''Rachita''' at a bus stop.
  
 
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|| Dimly lit lab
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|| Bus stop scene
  
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| One evening, '''Rohit''' stayed late in the lab.
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| She noticed '''Rachita''' limping and asked what had happened.
  
 
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|| Student practicing slides
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|| Casual question
  
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| He saw '''Vikram''' practicing his presentation alone.
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| '''Rachita''' said she was hurt during a trek.
  
 
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|| Tired student face
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|| Casual question
  
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| '''Vikram''' looked tired and nervous.
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| The teacher casually asked who went with her.
  
 
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|| Casual question
  
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| He was revising slides and correcting details.
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| '''Rachita''' replied, "'''Sonia'''!"
  
 
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|| Teacher surprised
  
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| '''Rohit''' noticed the effort behind the success.
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| The teacher said, "Oh, but '''Sonia''' told me she travelled for a family emergency."
  
 
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|| Student reviewing document
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|| Phone call between Rachita and Sonia
  
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| Later, '''Rohit''' looked at his own research paper.
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| Later that evening, '''Rachita''' called '''Sonia''' and shared this conversation.
  
 
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|| Highlighted mistakes
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|| Inner conflict
  
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| He noticed places where he had rushed.
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| '''Sonia''' felt a heaviness in her chest.
  
 
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|| Feedback comments
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|| Inner conflict
  
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| He remembered feedback he had ignored.
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| Her thoughts repeated, "I lied."
  
 
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|| Rohit's realisation
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|| Inner conflict
  
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| '''Rohit''' realized his jealousy was not about '''Vikram'''.
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| "I broke my teacher's trust."
  
 
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|| Arrow turning inward
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|| Restless night
  
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| It was about his own desire to do better.
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| She wondered, "Will my teacher trust me again?"
  
 
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|| Arrow shifting direction
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|| Restless night
  
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| Slowly, jealousy changed into admiration.
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| That night, '''Sonia''' slept uneasily.
  
 
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|| Growth arrow
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|| Sonia approaches teacher
  
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| Admiration pointed him toward learning and growth.
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| The next day, '''Sonia''' walked up to her teacher after class.
  
 
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|| Signal with star
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|| Sonia admitting the truth to the teacher
  
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| Admiration is also a signal.
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| She admitted the truth and apologized sincerely.
  
 
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|| Mountain icon
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|| Teacher listening
  
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| It shows us what is possible.
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| The teacher appreciated '''Sonia's''' honesty.
  
 
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|| Teacher explaining
  
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| It motivates us to improve.
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| She explained that trust takes time to rebuild.
  
 
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|| Resolution
  
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| Admiration encourages effort and learning.
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| '''Sonia''' felt lighter after taking responsibility.
  
 
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|| Resolution
  
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| But it should not turn into self-doubt.
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| She promised herself that she would not lie again.
  
 
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|| Breakdown – Thoughts
  
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| The next day, '''Rohit''' congratulated '''Vikram''' sincerely.
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| Let us see how guilt showed up for '''Sonia'''.
  
 
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|| Discussion on the bench
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|| Breakdown – Thoughts
  
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| He asked how '''Vikram''' structured his paper.
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| As Thoughts: "I broke my teacher's trust."
  
 
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|| Handshake
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|| Breakdown – Body
  
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| '''Vikram''' smiled and agreed to help.
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| As body sensations: heaviness and uneasiness.
  
 
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|| Group discussion
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|| Breakdown – Feelings
  
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| The friends began discussing ideas again.
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| As feelings: guilt and responsibility.
  
 
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|| Jealousy turning admiration
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|| Reflection slide
  
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| Sometimes, jealousy can turn into admiration.
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| Guilt is not about punishment.
  
 
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|| Flow diagram
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|| Repairing the damaged
  
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| This happens when we can learn or grow from it.
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| It is a signal asking us to repair what was damaged.
  
 
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|| Things which can't change
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|| Repairing the damaged
  
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| But sometimes, jealousy points to things we cannot change.
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| Like all emotions, guilt does not stay forever.
  
 
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|| Family
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|| Teacher listening
  
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| For example, relationships or family background.
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| Listening and acting on the message from the emotion helps the emotion fade away.
  
 
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|| Jealousy icon
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|| Teacher listening
  
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| In such cases, jealousy is not asking us to compare.
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| When guilt leads to honesty and repair, it is healthy.
  
 
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|| Heart with gap
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|| Caution slide
  
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| It is asking us to notice an unmet need.
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| When guilt turns into constant self-blame, it becomes harmful.
  
 
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|| Slide: Summary
  
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| It may be a need for care, attention, or connection.
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| Let us summarize.
  
 
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|| Message icon
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|| Guilt vs values
  
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| Jealousy and admiration both carry messages.
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| Guilt helps us notice when we have gone against our values.
  
 
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|| Listening icon
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|| Repairing trust
  
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| Listening wisely helps us respond better.
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| It guides us toward honesty, repair, and learning.
  
 
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|| Balance scale
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|| Repairing trust
  
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| Please remember, emotions are neither good nor bad.
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| When understood well, guilt strengthens relationships.
  
 
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|| Slide: Assignment
  
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Write about a time you felt guilty.
  
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What value or trust was affected?
  
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What action did guilt guide you towards?
  
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Jealousy shows us what we desire.
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Think of a time you felt jealous.
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Was it asking for growth or for care?
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This '''tutorial''' is brought to you by  
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'''EduPyramids Educational Services Private Ltd''', '''SINE, IIT Bombay'''.
 
'''EduPyramids Educational Services Private Ltd''', '''SINE, IIT Bombay'''.
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Revision as of 09:20, 13 May 2026

Visual Cue Narration
Title Slide Welcome to this Spoken Tutorial on Understanding Guilt.
Learning Objectives In this tutorial you will learn to:

- Define the concept of guilt.

- Identify common triggers for guilt.

- Recognize the impact of guilt on individuals.

- Explore different ways to process guilt.

Pre-requisite

http://EduPyramids.org

For the pre-requisite tutorials of this series, please visit this website.
Computer and mobile phone

Notebook Pause

To learn you will need a computer or a mobile phone.

Before we start, please keep a notebook ready to note your reflections. Pause and practice when instructed.

Guilt Guilt is an emotion we all experience.
A woman feeling guilty It often makes us uncomfortable.
A woman feeling guilty But guilt exists for an important reason.
Guilt vs values It helps us see when we have gone against our values or broken someone's trust.
Hunter-gatherer life Thousands of years ago, humans lived as hunter-gatherers in small tribes.
Hunter-gatherer scenes Survival depended on sharing food, protecting one another, and cooperation.
A member of tribe lying

Getting attacked by wolf

If one person lied, hid food from everyone, or broke trust, the entire group suffered.
Guilty man Guilt helped early humans notice this from within.
A man alert It acted as an inner alarm saying, "I may harm my group."
Man asking for forgiveness This pushed them to admit mistakes, repair harm, and restore trust.
A woman guilty with chains symbol Guilt is not a moral weakness.
A woman repairing the chains It is a signal that something needs repair.
Today's scenario Life today is very different from the past.
Emotions But our emotional system is the same.
Guilt vs values Guilt still appears when our actions hurt others or break trust.
College Let us understand this through a college story.
Test announced in classroom In class, a test was announced on Friday for the following Monday.
Sonia noticing down Sonia noted it down but soon forgot about it.
Friends on a trek That weekend, Sonia went on a short trek with her friend Rachita.
Friends on a trek They enjoyed the walk and the fresh air.
Exam paper distribution On Monday, the teacher entered the class and distributed question papers.
Sonia tensed Sonia felt her stomach tighten.
Sonia tensed She had not studied at all.
Teacher–student conversation Sonia told the teacher she had travelled for a family emergency.
Teacher–student conversation The teacher believed her and allowed her to take the test later.
Bus stop scene That evening, the teacher met Rachita at a bus stop.
Bus stop scene She noticed Rachita limping and asked what had happened.
Casual question Rachita said she was hurt during a trek.
Casual question The teacher casually asked who went with her.
Casual question Rachita replied, "Sonia!"
Teacher surprised The teacher said, "Oh, but Sonia told me she travelled for a family emergency."
Phone call between Rachita and Sonia Later that evening, Rachita called Sonia and shared this conversation.
Inner conflict Sonia felt a heaviness in her chest.
Inner conflict Her thoughts repeated, "I lied."
Inner conflict "I broke my teacher's trust."
Restless night She wondered, "Will my teacher trust me again?"
Restless night That night, Sonia slept uneasily.
Sonia approaches teacher The next day, Sonia walked up to her teacher after class.
Sonia admitting the truth to the teacher She admitted the truth and apologized sincerely.
Teacher listening The teacher appreciated Sonia's honesty.
Teacher explaining She explained that trust takes time to rebuild.
Resolution Sonia felt lighter after taking responsibility.
Resolution She promised herself that she would not lie again.
Breakdown – Thoughts Let us see how guilt showed up for Sonia.
Breakdown – Thoughts As Thoughts: "I broke my teacher's trust."
Breakdown – Body As body sensations: heaviness and uneasiness.
Breakdown – Feelings As feelings: guilt and responsibility.
Reflection slide Guilt is not about punishment.
Repairing the damaged It is a signal asking us to repair what was damaged.
Repairing the damaged Like all emotions, guilt does not stay forever.
Teacher listening Listening and acting on the message from the emotion helps the emotion fade away.
Teacher listening When guilt leads to honesty and repair, it is healthy.
Caution slide When guilt turns into constant self-blame, it becomes harmful.
Slide: Summary Let us summarize.
Guilt vs values Guilt helps us notice when we have gone against our values.
Repairing trust It guides us toward honesty, repair, and learning.
Repairing trust When understood well, guilt strengthens relationships.
Slide: Assignment

Write about a time you felt guilty.

What value or trust was affected?

What action did guilt guide you towards?

Here is an activity for you:
Acknowledgement slides Thank you for joining.
Disclaimer slide
Final slide: EduPyramids logo This tutorial is brought to you by

EduPyramids Educational Services Private Ltd, SINE, IIT Bombay.

Contributors and Content Editors

Misbah

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